Journal of Nursing Jocularity

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Bedside Manners: Got Vim? Resolve to be a Flo Fo this Year by Patricia L Raymond, MD FACP FACG

So, with this new year, will you do things with verve? With vim? With vigor?

You probably know ‘vigor’, but vim (lively and energetic spirit) and verve (enthusiasm and animation) may be not so familiar to you. And neither was Florence Foster Jenkins, aka Flo Fo, to me.

Driving down the road, listening attentively to NPR’s “Wait, Wait…”, I heard a piece on the woman known as Flo Fo, and fell in love with her spirit, her verve, her vim.

Florence Foster Jenkins, born in 1868, wished to become a singer despite a distinct lack of any talent.  Whatso-ever. After her wealthy parents refused to send her to Europe to study, she eloped (with Jenkins, a physician). Upon her father’s death in 1909, she inherited money which allowed her to launch her successful singing career, despite “her complete lack of rhythm, pitch, tone, and overall singing ability.”

After a taxicab crash in 1943, she found she could sing “a higher F than ever before,” and she sent the driver a box of expensive cigars. She sang happily and erratically throughout her long and ear-damaging career. At the age of 76, Jenkins finally yielded to public demand and performed at a sold out performance at Carnegie Hall on October 25, 1944. Jenkins died a month later. (more…)

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Bedside Manners: ‘Being’ at your Next Unit Meeting: How to Enjoy Confrontation with your Most Troublesome Nursing Colleague by Patricia L Raymond, MD FACP FACG

Of course, here I’m assuming that one of your colleagues is in fact troublesome. But from what I hear, nursing is like every work situation. There is likely to be one person who doesn’t pull their weight. Who’s so cranky no one will work with them. Who calls in sick, a lot. Usually on Mondays. Who’s _____________ (fill in your own personal blank here).

And then comes your monthly staff meeting…where nobody says a thing. Where nothing changes. Where you continue to be assigned the role of slack-meister, taking up the slack for these dullards. Not doing anything. Sound familiar? We call this being an appeaser.

A appeaser is one who feeds a crocodile –
hoping it will eat him last. ~Winston Churchill (more…)

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Bedside Manners We Need To Talk: Dare to Say the Scary Words by Dr. Patricia Raymond, MD, FACP, FACG

“Dr. Raymond… we need to talk.”

“Call me”, the voicemail from my new practice manager concluded. It gave not a clue to the topic of our upcoming conversation.

Yikes. I hate that. Actually, it would be more correct to say that I fear that. I spent ten years in a practice where those words never preceded “Your staff has decided to get together and give you a surprise birthday party” or even “We made so much money last month that we decided to give you a bonus, and a day off.”  It always meant something awful, and a meeting in which you were blindsided by not knowing the topic… except of course, that you would be the topic. (more…)

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